This is another music video that I really love and it seems very relevant to my post today part 4 of the purpose of self love.
Yesterday I introduced to you the idea of radical acceptance and I hope that you have read it an considered the impact that it will have on your life. I had someone say to me today “How can I let this go……?” and he had a very relevant argument. But the truth is how can you keep holding onto it when it is causing you so much pain?
How life works is that what is on the inside shows up on the outside. Just an example is would you expect to get apple juice from a lemon? Of course you wouldn’t. You can only get apple juice from an apple.
The same can be said for self love. If you are holding grudges about others then what comes from you is grudges. Even when these grudges are solidly grounded in hurt and bad experiences they still are holding your heart to the feeling of unforgiveness and hurt.
The result of such feelings (according to the law of attraction and just like the apple juice, which must come from the apple) is more of the same.
But if you can radically accept whatever is going on in your life (and you can choose that, even though it is not easy) then instead of more of the bad feelings you will have feelings of love and peace.
I believe that we all come to this earth to really learn how to love and self love is the most important love of all.
I hope that makes sense to you. If you would like to leave a comment or book a coaching session with me then please do so.
Much love,
Susan
