Kindness was easy for me until I was upset about something but recently I had a situation that I was not at all happy about and I remembered to use kindness to make the most of the situation.
I had been taught to fight like a cat when I did not like what I was presented with and it was a bit foreign to me to come from the place of love and kindness when dealing with difficulty.
What I experienced really blew me away. When I came from a place of true caring and kindness there was no resistance at all from the person I was talking to.
I was able to calmly air the problems that I was experiencing and he was really hearing what I was saying. This was an amazing experience to me. In the past when I handled things in my habitual way the outcome was just a huge blow up and nothing really resolved.
In my life I have found that I need to do things differently to get different results and this is so true for me. Having fun and experimenting with ideas is a great way to make the most of my life. Especially when it comes to relationships.
The best thing about this approach is that after the interaction is finished, I get to feel good about myself and how I handled a situation that I would not have handled well in the past.
If you want to have a different life than you are currently experiencing, you might like to take advantage of my free consultation and we can together bring forward strategies on how you can live a life that you love.
Much love,
Susan
